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 Above:  Mark in center #66 playing in 1999 State Championship Finals, November 26, 1999

The Mark DeWalle Courageous Heart Medal

The Mark DeWalle Courageous Heart Medal
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Designed by fellow Panther, Scott Pope #64 , 1997
     Mark wanted very much to leave his love of Mehlville Football to the future players of Panther football.  He loved all of his teammates...those that came before him, and those that followed.  He was very pleased that an award would be presented yearly in his name and memory.  "Don't let it turn into a slap award," was the comment he made to his brother, John.   He wanted very much that players understand the importance of being a team and staying a team forever.  He wanted his future brothers to understand the importance of knowing one's body.  He wanted his future brothers to understand that what they learn as Panther football players...they will be able to use throughout their lives and in what ever battles they may face.  Hehoped the recipients would be players admired not just by the coaches....but by the administration of Mehlville and most importantly, their fellow teammates.  He wanted the recipient to be the player that others would call in future years.  He wanted the recipients to be the one that players from that year would remember with honor.

Medal Recipients

2007 Mark DeWalle Courageous Heart Medal
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Tyler Krueger with Mark's brother, Coach John DeWalle

 "I want to thank you and you family again for awarding me with the Courageous Heart Medal. Ever since I received the award I know you had been in contact with my mom and she told me about this website. Ever since I heard about it I've found myself on the site almost every day reading your posts and learning about the great young man that Mark was. I never got the pleasure to meet Mark, but I find myself to be alot like him. I will always cherish the bond that I will always have with your family through this very special award. Ive received many trophies and awards in my life, but never have I been more honored then at the banquet when I received that medal. I will remember that moment for the rest of my life. Thank you again and I want you to know my thoughts and prayers are still with the Dewalle family everyday."  -Tyler Krueger-

John's speech in presenting the first Courageous Heart Medal

 I have always been proud to have been a Mehlville football player.  It is one of the things that I have always held close to my heart.  It is truly a brother hood.

Many of you know of my brother, Mark.  My brother loved Panther football more than anyone I have ever known.  When he was in grade school and junior high, he used wait under the goal post to catch the PATs.  In little league, he wore the number of his favorite Mehlville Football player. From the time he was 11 years old, Mark never missed a Panther football game.

Mark was a varsity starter from his sophomore year on.  He holds the record for the most consecutive varisty starts in Mehlville football history.  He unselfishly switched positions many times to help make the team better:  he played Quarterback, Fullback, Tight End, Center, Outside LB, Inside LB and Guard.  Mark understood that a committment to something bigger than oneself is more rewarding than personal accolades.  He was a member of the 1999 State Championship team.  He was a team captain.  He was awarded the Most Valuable Offensive Lineman and the Most Valuable Linebacker award at his varsity banquet.



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 2007:  Tyler Krueger          
Tyler Krueger, senior at Mehlville High School was awarded the first Courageous Heart Medal.  Many comments were made following the selection that not only was Tyler the perfect example of what the medal is to represent, but he also established a high standard for future teammates.  Tyler, like Mark, played in a state championship football game, and his excitement can frequently be seen when watching #5 in action.

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I remember when he had an interception at a freshman Lindbergh game.  I remember his first varsity start.  I remember him as a sophomore intercepting a pass at a Parkway West varsity game.  I also remember him intercepting cancer just four years ago.

During the course of his illness, he fought hard.  He was quiet about his fight but never quiet about where he learned to fight.  He repeatedly said that it was what he learned as a Panther football player that gave him the strength and the skills to fight his biggest game.

Mark believed that anyone who played Panther football was his brother.  Mark loved his teammates.  He knew that future Panthers would be part of his destiny.  He wanted others that followed him to appreciate what Panther football really has to offer:  life skills to meet any challenge.
 

When you walk off of the field for that last time in a Mehlville uniform...win or lose...with tears in your eyes...you are men.  You have the knowledge, the tools and the know how to meet any challenge head on, unafraid.  You understand committment and dedication not just to yourself, but to others.

He wanted his future brothers to undersand the importance of knowing one's body.  He wanted his future brothers to remember that they will always be a team.  When you walk out of here tonight, you are still connected to one another.  Mark wanted that connection to be forever.

You will always be teammates.  Remember to be there for each other.  Remember your connections do not end here.  When one of you goes into any kind of battle..know in your hearts that your Panther football brothers are with you.  Seek them out...they will be there for you.

Juniors, your season is not over.  Your senior season is just starting.  Keep each other safe, keep each other close to your heart.  Know when you see each other in the halls...that the brotherhood of Panther football spirit is there.  It is unspoken..yet you will feel it.  Nurture it.  Stay a team.  Work out together.  Set goals for one another.  But most of all, be there for one another.  That's what builds a team.  That's what strengthens brotherhood.  That's what makes us Panthers.  It is something you won't find at Oakville, Kirkwood, Lindbergh or anywhere else.  It is what makes us unique...and that is something Mark always knew.

Hours before Mark died, he requested that Coach Heyde come to see him.  I know he wanted to hear from Coach that he had done all he could, had fought the good fight, had played his hardest and that he left it on the field.  I think too, Mark wanted Coach to know how much he respected him...and how much he loved him.  And Coach, at 11:30 at night, was there for one of his players at the very end.

Mark died June 13th with his State Championship Medal on him.  He wanted this medal placed on him because I believe, he felt it represented his coaches, his teammates.....and this program.  Some of his very last thoughts were of Mehlville football.  He wanted his teammates and coaches with him at the end.  He also requested that he have on the FCA Courageous Heart Medal he had been awarded several years ago.

Mark's greatest fear was that people, especially his coaches and teammates, would think he was a quitter.  This has never been the case.  With the support of Coach Heyde, the Boosters, our family wishes to award a very special medal starting this year.  It is a medal to honor that player who best exemplifies the understanding that what you take from the Panther Football program are not just district titles, team and personal stats....but the understanding that you now have the tools to meet any challenge that comes your way throughout your life.

Mark was without a doubt the most courageous person I have ever met.  When he was awarded the FCA Coruageous Heart Medal, it meant a lot to him, a lot to my family.  On his medal, it says "Strong to the Finish."  This was an appropriate term for my brother's life.  It is an appropriate term for the first recipient of this award.

This year's recipient is the first to receive this award.  Through discussions with players, teachers, parents and coaches, I am honored and pleased that this player is the first recipient.  Continue to develop, continue to grow strong, continue to use the skills and the loyalty you learned as a Panther.  Continue to be there for your brothers.  Keep yourself safe and healthy.

On behalf of the coaches, the Boosters and my family, I wish to present this year's Mark DeWalle Courageous Heart Award to a player who best exemplifies the spirit of this award....Tyler Krueger